The Bags You’ll Love to Beat Up

Why “perfect” bags are officially out.

POSTED BY GRETCHEN DEUTSCH

I know I’m not the only one guilty of babying my bags. I’ve carried them carefully, avoided the floor at all costs, and treated every scratch like a small disaster. But after years of trying to keep my new bags in perfect condition, I've found that I feel more myself when I’m wearing a bag that’s already a little messed up, rather than one I’m afraid to ruin.

Luckily, fashion’s finally moving away from perfect, pristine bags, and I’m here for it. People (and by people, I mean myself included) are now carrying bags that look lived-in and slouchy, whether that be second-hand patinated pieces with character or new soft-leather, pre-distressed designs. 

Jane Birkin herself carried her famously “beat-up” Birkin every day, turning one of fashion’s most iconic luxury bags into something personal, worn, and entirely her own. And, honestly, we should have followed her lead sooner. 

Picking a bag is no longer about flexing luxury anymore. It’s about finding a piece that is uniquely yours. And I don’t mean choosing a niche bag that nobody else owns. I mean finding the right piece to express your personality, and one that has a personality of its own. 

We don’t have to freak out over every little scratch anymore — that’s the fun part! We can just wear our flaws on our shoulders and embrace the stories that each scuff tells. 

Wear and tear is inevitable, so use your bag to your heart’s content because whether it's designer or not, the chicest thing you can be is imperfect. 

Fizzypicks: The worn-in bags I’m loving right now — scroll to shop your style.

FREE PEOPLE
Emerson Tote
$248

 

PARKER THATCH
Daily Bag - Heritage "Broken-In" Leather
$728

 

FRANCIS
It Girl Bag
$107

 

JW PEI
Hana Medium Tote Bag
$139

 

STAUD
Maude Satchel
$495

 

REBECCA MINKOFF
Megan Tote
$248

 

GERARD DAREL
Crinkle Effect Leather Bag
$346.5

 

BALENCIAGA
Rodeo Handbag 
$4,590

 

ZADIG & VOLTAIRE
Sunny Shopper Bag
$548

 

FRYE
Melissa Satchel
$388

 

ATORIE
Avalea Top-Grain Vegetable-Tanned Leather Bowling Tote
$269

 

ISABEL MARANT
Silven E/W Bag
$1,350

 

MIU MIU
Aventure Nappa Leather Shoulder Bag
$4,300

 

ANTHROPOLOGIE
Radley London The Christina Shoulder Bag
$368

 

DESIGUAL
Large Leather Studio Bag
$399

 

 

COACH
Brooklyn 39 Loved Leather Shoulder Bag
$550

 

GABI FLORENCE
Luisa
$351

 

URBAN OUTFITTERS
Silence + Noise Washed Faux Leather Tote Bag
$70

 

TONY BIANCO
Elsie Black Soft Vintage
$300

 

PRADA
Bonnie Large Leather Handbag
$3,650

 

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