Why Everyone Should Create A Sex Playlist

When we hear the term “sex playlist” many of us are divided. Some are completely cringed out by the concept, while for others - it’s their go-to guilty pleasure. If the pandemic has left you with a lowered libido or a lack-lustre mood, then a banging sex playlist could be exactly what you need to get those sensual juices flowing again.

Let’s get real – there’s nothing embarrassing about using music to aid your orgasms.  

After all, not only does some erotic tuneage boost our state of mind and endorphin levels – studies have shown that it also uses the same reward pathways as sex. This means that our emotional response to music works just the same as when we’re turned on or aroused.  

If that’s not a reason to embark on a doubly pleasurable experience – we don’t know what is. Here is everything you need to know about creating the ultimate sex playlist, so you can avoid the danger of “shuffle” mode and home in on erotic ambience.

Determine Your Desires  

 
Now, are you in the mood for romantic lovemaking? Or do you want to be f*cked – hard? Knowing what you’re in the mood for is key when compiling a sexy soundtrack.

Our suggestion is to gather a collection of songs that will fit the bill for whichever mood you’re in – you can then queue your playlist as and how you want, for ultimate satisfaction.  

Focus on higher tempos and explicit lyrics for the hardcore stuff, and opt for subtle, slower tunes for something more vanilla. Ask yourself – are you looking to be dominated and surrender control? Or, is it your turn to take charge this time?  

Once you’ve established what kind of climax you want to experience, you’ll be able to identify the types of tracks that can help you get there.

Increase The Intimacy You Have With Yourself

Despite what you might think, sex playlists are not just for loved-up couples. If you’re newly single, going through a dry-patch, or just simply frustrated - it’s prime time to play some sexy tunes.  

Listening to music that stimulates your sexuality will elevate your self-care time to the next level. Set the tone – put on a pair of lacy pjs, whip out a toy, and put on The Weeknd (let’s be honest – he’s pretty much the king of sex music!)  

Using music to heighten the experience of playing with yourself is the perfect way to vamp up your night-time routine. Who says you need a boyfriend to explore your inner kinkiness?

Collaborate With Your Partner 

 
On the flip-side – if you’re not going solo, and you’re in a relationship – collaborating on a sexy playlist together is a great way to spice things up and boost your intimacy.

Even if you’re long-distance, Spotify has a collaborative playlist option in which invitees can add their personally selected song choices to a shared collection. This way, you and your partner can tease each other about what you’re both really into when it comes to matching your music to your mood.  

Build up the excitement for your beau by adding a few wild-cards in there – or speak openly about how you want the sex to play out when you next see each other. Either way – there’s no downside here.  

Just make sure that whichever music streaming device you’re using, you’ve disabled any ads – the last thing you want is any awkward interruptions when you’re approaching those well-deserved orgasms! 

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