Confidence Is a Skill, Not a Vibe – Roxie Nafousi’s New Book Proves It

Let’s be honest: confidence is something we all chase — sometimes like it’s the last pair of Miu Miu ballet flats in our size. Whether it's walking into a room full of strangers or simply asking for what we want (hello, pay raise?), Confidence isn’t just a mindset — it’s a muscle. And guess who’s here to help us flex it? Roxie Nafousi. You might know Roxie from her first book, Manifest, which put manifestation back on the map for a new generation. She’s also a self-development coach, a podcast host, and someone who’s refreshingly open about her ups and downs. Her journey from party girl to wellness guru isn’t just for headlines — it’s what gives her words real weight.

Confidence: How to Own Your Worth, Grow Your Self-Belief and Find Your Voice is the title of her new book, and it gets into the nitty gritty of why so many of us feel stuck in self-doubt, and how to rewire that inner narrative. Spoiler alert: confidence isn’t something you’re born with; it’s something you build. And Nafousi gives you the blueprint.

Roxie breaks things down with clarity and warmth, mixing science-backed strategies, journal prompts that feel useful, and personal stories that remind you she’s been in the mess too.

She talks about comparison, fear of rejection, people-pleasing — all the things we know hold us back but struggle to shift. And somehow, she makes you feel seen and supported without ever sounding preachy.

One quote that really hit?

“Confidence is not about walking into a room and thinking you’re better than everyone else. It’s walking in and not needing to compare yourself at all.”

Rooted in her signature style — part tough love, part warm big sister energy — Confidence is full of practical tools, personal anecdotes, and science-backed strategies. Roxie doesn’t shy away from her struggles either, making the book feel more like a chat with a wise, emotionally intelligent friend than a self-help sermon.

In a world that constantly tells us we’re not enough, Roxie’s message feels like a reset button we all needed.

Whether you’re building yourself back up after a low point, or just wanting to show up more fully in your own life, Confidence meets you exactly where you’re at — and gently pushes you forward.

With her book tour in full swing and conversations about self-worth finally getting the attention they deserve, Roxie’s voice feels more relevant than ever.