4 Steps For Reviving Your Mojo Through Fashion

Refresh your wardrobe to reclaim your confidence and unique style.

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Life happens to us all, and from time to time we might find it knocks the wind out of our sails. How you get back up and find your momentum often defines how quickly you’ll recover and find your way forward, but sometimes, it’s understandable to look in the mirror and feel like we've lost that spark that makes us feel like ourselves. 

Sometimes it sneaks up slowly. In fashionable terms, it could be realizing your wardrobe has somehow turned into an endless sea of black and gray. Other times it hits suddenly, maybe after a big life change or just one of those weeks where nothing seems to fit right. But why couch this in the context of fashion? 

Well, because how we tend to express ourselves and the enthusiasm we have for doing so can signify how we feel in life. Fashion isn’t a disembodied habit after all, the items we wear can say a great deal about where we are in life and what our attitude may be.

Fashion and style can work in the reverse direction too, serving as a wonderful tool for finding your way back to feeling like yourself. Note we’re not talking about following trends or spending a fortune on new clothes, but gently rediscovering what makes you feel confident and comfortable in your own skin.

Let’s discuss how that might be possible, and why you could feel like a new person for the effort:

Clear Your Space, Clear Your Perspective Too

Now and then it’s nice to just get rid of the baggage weighing you down, and if your wardrobe is cluttered beyond anyone’s imagination, you can start here. Beginning afresh with your wardrobe doesn't mean throwing everything out necessarily, but understanding what you have can help yo see the right items you need. Some people find it helpful to take everything out and really look at each piece. 

You might notice patterns you hadn't seen before, like holding onto clothes that never quite fit right or always reaching for the same comfortable favorites. The nice thing about this process is that it often reveals what you actually enjoy wearing versus what you think you should wear, and you get to make adjustments here, and perhaps lighten the load a little. In life, sometimes we need to move on to feel freer, and this is a great metaphor for that.

Rediscover Your Comfort Zone

Getting your mojo back doesn't mean pushing yourself into uncomfortable territory right away - like those individuals who find themselves attending makeover shows only to come away looking like a brand new and unfamiliar person. You can start with what feels good alone,  maybe it's those soft, well-worn jeans that make you feel like yourself, or that one dress that makes you feel feminine. Most people have certain colors or styles that just feel right. Pay attention to those feelings. They're usually telling you something important about your personal style preferences and perhaps you can even lean into them more to feel your best self.

Play With Small Changes

Now, style isn’t a puzzle to be solved but fun to be had. Keep that in mind. Now and then, tiny tweaks make the biggest difference in how you feel, so you don’t have to go overboard to have a little fun. 

Adding a bright scarf to your usual outfit or trying a slightly different cut of your favorite style can feel like a manageable change and perhaps a tentative step outside of your usual comforts. Some people find that accessories are an easy way to experiment because they're less commitment than a whole new wardrobe but can completely change how an outfit feels. The main thing is making changes that feel exciting rather than overwhelming. Thrifting is a good way to achieve this, as you might find a gem for cheap too.

Create New Fun

The final step is about bringing in fresh energy and a sense of novelty or freshness - but thoughtfully doing that instead of impulse buying things you might never wear. Look for pieces that really spark something in you. Some people find inspiration in fashion magazines or social media, while others prefer people-watching in areas of town they think are stylish and fun. The nice thing about modern fashion is that there are no real rules anymore - it's all about what makes you feel good. 

For example, wearing white leggings women as an addition to your activewear could make you feel more comfortable around the house, or perhaps just outfitting your hipster work bag with a few more badges could help you feel a little more punk. Just take it at your own pace and have fun with it all. You’ll be surprised how good you feel if you just center your own enjoyment.

With this advice, we hope you can more easily revive your wonderful mojo through your fashion.

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