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Why Watching Porn CAN Be Romantic

A whole new meaning to Netflix and Chill.

POSTEDBYKIRSTI ALEXANDRA REID

Slipping into something sensual, lighting some candles, pouring the wine and then flicking on the porn channel don't usually go together. If you're planning on having a special evening with your lover, listening to the dulcet tones of a blonde going downtown on a well-hung guy probably isn't your idea of romance. But when it's done right, watching porn together can be very romantic and super sexy for you both, surprisingly.

The porn industry has come a long way since the days of seedy top-shelf magazines. These days, you can find free porn on the internet quicker than finding out the latest fashion news and it's available in every genre you can think of! This has revolutionized the way we think of porn, particularly among women. More and more, women are accepting porn and watching it alone but still not enough couples are watching it together, missing out on a great opportunity. This is mostly because it’s one thing to watch some down and dirty sex acts on your own, quite another to let your partner in on the types of porn you watch.

While it’s great to share your fantasies, porn can be a little different. Hardcore porn lovers might enjoy watching a gang bang on the screen but that doesn’t necessarily mean you actually want to participate in that IRL. This can be a hard concept for a partner to wrap their head around and so it’s understandable that many couples choose not to open that can of worms. But what if there was a way that you both could enjoy porn together, in a romantic and sensual way? Lucky for you, there is!

Firstly, avoid the hardcore stuff. Even if that’s your kind of thing, it might not be your partners and as we’ve said before, it doesn’t really sit beside romance all that well. If you’re introducing porn into your relationship as a couple for the first time, you’re better to opt for something a little softer. A simple one on one movie is a great place to start. A far cry from the standard, there are many options out there that are tastefully directed. Approaching the scenes in an artist way that is neither cheesy or abrasive, you can choose to watch porn that is more like a great sex scene from a Hollywood blockbuster. After all, Fifty Shades of Grey wasn’t extremely popular with couples for no reason.

So here’s what to do. Obviously, you need to create some ambiance. Get all of your usual romantic night in supplies, scented candles, wine, sexy lingerie, and even some aphrodisiac foods. Get comfy with your partner, sit in between his legs and get entangled with each other. You don’t want to be sitting on the sofa together, bolt upright like you’re waiting for a job interview! Stick the movie on and let it do its magic! You’ll find yourself being turned on very quickly and you can either copy the scenes as they unfold, maybe trying out positions you’ve never before, or simply let it play in the background as you both do your own thing.

Overall, watching porn together can be a great alternative to date night out on the town. It’s cheaper, it’s hotter and in the end, you’ll feel more satisfied after a full night of experimentation! Don’t be afraid to laugh as well. Not all couples are the same and even though you’ve tried your best to make porn work for you both, things don’t always go to plan. If it ends up being a flop, just laugh it off and move on, there’s no shame in that, at least you tried!

 

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