How To Nail Tomboy-Femme Without Trying Too Hard
Your easy guide to mixing tomboy staples with feminine flair.
Okay girls, let’s talk about something I’ve been totally obsessed with: feminine tomboy outfits. You know the look I’m talking about – a tank top, jorts, biker boots, and a bandana in the hair, or a basic tee, suit trousers, loafers, and accents of color in socks and a matching beanie. It took me ages to find the perfect outfit formula to nail this look every time, and now I’m passing along the wisdom I've gained from my many failed attempts.
The trick to nailing this aesthetic starts with your base pieces. This look is a little baggy, a little lived-in, and a little carefree – so think relaxed silhouettes and structured staples. Go for the kind of pieces that give off “I just threw this on, but it works.” My tomboy essentials are straight-leg or boyfriend jeans, oversized blazers, leather jackets, classic tees, and chunky sneakers; they give your outfit structure and that laid-back edge. But here’s the secret – you don’t want to look like you literally rolled out of bed.
The feminine energy is all about soft textures and delicate details. That’s where the femme side comes in. My go-to is tucking a silk cami into jeans. Accessories are a super easy way to add some more femininity to your look. I like structured totes or mini crossbody bags. Subtle jewelry like thin gold chains or a few rings adds just enough feminine fun to your outfit without overdoing it. This look is all about mixing proportions and textures to create a look that feels balanced but still a little surprising.
And lastly, shoes, this is where the magic happens. Sneakers, ankle boots, or loafers are perfect tomboy foundations, but pairing them with soft, feminine pieces gives your outfit that flirty, femme twist. Once you get the hang of it, mixing tomboy staples with feminine touches will feel like second nature, and your outfit game will never feel boring again.
So if you’re ready to start experimenting with the tomboy-femme aesthetic, check out my FizzyPicks below:
OPEN EDIT
The Icon Trousers
$89.50
PRINCESS POLLY
Kierstyn Stripe Crop Cotton Top & Wide Leg Pants Set
$84
TOPSHOP
Herringbone Pleated Wide Leg Pants
$42
TORINO
Alligator Embossed Leather Belt
$90
BILLABONG
Sun Chasing Oversize Cotton Graphic T-Shirt
$39.95
EDIKTED
Denim Cargo Pants
$78.40
PLEASURES
Lucky Stud Jorts
$49.99
RALPH LAUREN
Stripe Cotton Tie Neck Button-Up Shirt
$69
EDIKTED
Oversize Semisheer Boat Neck Top
$38.40
ISABEL MARANT
Lecce Knotted Leather Belt
$112.50
HOUSE OF CB
Bobbi Mandarin Collar faux Leather Crop Top
$159
URBAN OUTFITTERS
BDG Kayla Aruba Wide Leg Jeans
$31.60
AG
Saige Mid Rise Wide Leg Jeans
$183.75
JOE'S
The Margot High Waist Straight Leg Jeans
$152.60
FRAME
The Borrowed Mid Rise Boyfriend Jeans
$194.60
WRANGLER
Jort Cutoff Denim Shorts
$69
DURANGO
Black Harness Boot
$181.50
525 AMERICA
Elaine Bow Front Puff Sleeve Cardigan
$129
VUORI
Trestles Twill Button Up Shirt
$128
ASTR
Label One-Shoulder Tie Hem Knit Top
$24.99
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