From Phone Sex To #Sexting: Your Textual Fantasy

Back in the day, say the 80’s— your parents may be able to enlighten you about this epic sexual myth— there were 1-900 phone lines that would charge $1.99, or more, a minute to simply hear some stranger tell you he or she wants to fuck you. Of course, the voice on the other end of the line would use cliché prose to get you all wet and hot. Those were called “chatlines,” pretty much like a chat room, but over the phone.

The voices join in for some naughty and erotic conversations that would break the bank; not condoms. So, if you were looking to flirt, tease, express yourself and get a little wild, you’d call and empty your savings account by hearing a hot lady touch herself on the other end. Worry not, nowadays chatlines still exist, but they’re free. Main issue aside of the expense? Addiction. Yes, phone sex is addictive. If your imagination isn’t enough, imagine someone on the phone describing an act of sex while you’re rubbing one off?

The sexual fantasy becomes a safe substitute for physical intimacy, but it’s still debatable if it’s considered infidelity. No kidding. That being said, phone sex became a great way for long distance relationships to flourish in full bloom and get their orgasmic experiences up. It’s usually not as good as the real thing, but it is particularly good at bridging the gap until you do see each other again. Well, the millennia brought a new form of sexual communication, making this method somewhat obsolete: #Sexting.

While people were paying up to $50 for 10 minutes of pleasurable phone sex with a total stranger, free unlimited text messaging packages make it possible for your almost erupting manhood to receive some relief. Hey, it’s one of the benefits of living in the digital age: people can get busy whenever, wherever, through their phones or the internet. But for that to work, you must bring your A-game. Texting: “what are you wearing?” may warrant an awkward reply with a rolleye emoji, or worst: “clothes, I’m at work.”

The fact that sexts are within reach for everyone doesn’t mean it’s meant for everyone’s usage. For instance. pretend you just texted your mother about your whereabouts, followed by a text to your new conquest. You’re texting back and forth between both ladies, when you suddenly decide it’s a great idea to sext a nude picture. Boom! There she is, your horrified mom looking at your crazy hard boner. That’s a big no!

Good sexters know, the advantage of putting thoughts into words is simple: editing. While phone sex provides on-the-spot imagery by a sexy voice, sexting becomes erotic literature— if you play it wisely. In fact, according to a new study from the University of Michigan, sexting is a normal, healthy part of dating. Text messaging merges communication and creativity within the erotic space, if only for a sexual thrill. Just make sure you get the Hidely App and cover your tracks and private parts.