Debunking The Myths Around Adult Toys

Feeling a closer connection.

POSTED BY GUEST WRITER

Long gone are the days when the world of sex toys was a taboo, dark and dingy corner of life that were only accessible and perusable by hurriedly dashing into a tiny, battered store on a particularly seedy street. Nowadays, the use of sex toys in a relationship is much more openly discussed and accepted, and many people advocate the use of adult toys in their relationship and have reported feeling a closer connection and a higher level of intimacy with their partner as a result.

The Revolution

Now, the world of adult toys is experiencing a popular boom, a revolution whereby it is now socially acceptable to discuss improving your sex life and indulging in the fascinating, exciting, and frankly orgasmic world of adult toys.

Culturally speaking, certainly in the Western world, the stigma and taboo around adult toys grows more extinct by the day.

Not Just for Singles

There is a preconceived notion, a long upheld belief that the majority of people who invest in adult toys in-store and online, such as the fabulous and exciting range available from adulttoystore.com.au are mainly single, ‘lonely’ women and slightly odd men with a fetish for the extreme. This genuinely could not be further from the truth.

Couples who introduce adult toys into the bedroom report that the experiences bring them ever closer and closer together. When using adult toys, the pressure is off both partners to perform, allowing everyone to enjoy the experience in an entirely different way.

Emasculating

Another entirely incorrectly held preconceived notion surrounding the use of adult toys is that they question a man’s ability to please his partner. In actual fact, quite the opposite is true as time and time again, couples in long-lasting relationships report having a significantly better sexual experience and intimate relationship in general when introducing adult toys into the bedroom.  Vibrators and other sex toys provide only one thing; they cannot kiss, cuddle, snuggle, warm up the bed or make the cup of coffee afterward. Adult toys are in no way emasculating and can be when used between two loving and adventurous people, quite the opposite.

Additionally, some people believe that the regular use of sex toys, whether as a solo adventure or as part of a couple, can significantly affect the individual’s sex drive. In reality however, quite the opposite is true.

Boring Sex Life

Some people, incredibly wrongfully, believe that if a couple introduces adult toys into their marital bed that the couple in question must have had a very boring and lackluster sex life beforehand. Not that it has anything to do with anyone else.

In some cases, it may be true that the reason adult toys have been introduced is to spice up their sex lives, but generally, if a couple are experimenting with such toys, it means they have a healthy sex life and want to continue to become more intimate and have even more fun together in new and exciting ways.

Next up, It Took Me 25 Years To Accept My Kinkiness

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